Through my grief I came to realize that friends and family will cry with you, give their condolences and send cards. However what happens as time moves on when they think "your ok now" and move on with their own lives.
This is when I found true support from ones who have been where I was at compassionate friends. I was also given -a book from a friend called stolen angels that changed my life for the better.
One important step in getting through your grief is to remember your baby. October 15th is infant loss remembrance day. This is a day for all mothers of children lost too soon to remember their angels in their own special way. I personally send my angels messages on balloons and send them off into the air each October 15th.